Dear ladies, if you love takes all your energy and always leaves you naked and feeling empty, could be due to all the errors that you commit to the exit.
Building relationships with the wrong mentality almost always you will leave with bitterness and no matter how many times you try, you’ll still be short.
To avoid this, here are four habits of relationship to drop before your next relationship:
1. Change your appearance to get a man
To have a relationship with any man, in particular, is not something that will move or die. You can find love, happiness and peace of mind with more than one person. That idea of having only one soul mate is not true.
So no matter how attracted you are for a guy, it makes no sense to change your appearance because that is the condition to catch it.
If you must lose weight or alter your physical appearance in any way, quit because you want to, not because a guy does not want it any other way.
The person that you want to obtain should want to be with you as it is, obvious defects and all.
2. Waiver of your dreams
In addition to physical appearance, also do not need to renounce your biggest dreams and aspirations for the sake of a relationship or a guy.
A relationship should help you move forward and advance their goals, not hinder their development and stop their growth.
If you’ve always had to put all of your life, or some aspects in hopes to advance to a boy, what are you doing wrong and it is time for a change?
It is good to grow together, without a doubt, and it is admirable if you choose to help your man. But if you have to be any of you, don’t be naive and put yourself last.
Always elígete yourself
3. Be in a position to be loved by mercy
Whatever you do, never be in a position that will make a man love you out of pity.
Even if you shoot your shot, it is quick to know when to continue with the class if you are not interested. If a guy wants you, you will know. If it shows signs that it is not, or if he shows mixed signals, don’t delay too long to ensure that you love out of pity.
You can’t convince a man that you love, ladies. He will choose, pursue, and, finally, you will be with the woman he really loves each and every one of the times.
Don’t force your hand. If he can’t see the goodness that you are, it is your loss.
4. Blame everyone but yourself
Another habit of relationship that must control and stop is the act of seeing the fault of everyone, except his.
If all your ex-complained about the same thing, then maybe you’re not perfect like you think about it.
You could do things with good intentions that would be bad to the recipient of the action. Do not always blame yourself for not seeing the purity of his heart, are your actions that will always be judged.