If you are a good listener, generous with your time, very empathic and somehow you get stuck in a unilateral relationship, you would need to find a way out before it is too late.
The final game is to cut that partner if they have proven to be irremediable takers of everything they have to offer, but offer nothing in return.
As is understandable, you may not want to be sad or be conflicted about it, so here are ways to get out of such a one-sided relationship:
1. Reduce the speed of your response time
Because you have shown that you only care about yourself enough to arrive when you need something or another, you should stop responding to each text immediately.
Two can play the game. If they are never there for you, it is not necessary to be there for them either.
2. Be very busy
Just make time for the people who give you energy and elevate you. It would be disappointing to be in a relationship with someone who does not give their time when they would literally cancel everything to be there for them.
To get out of the relationship without being obvious about it, also deny your time.
You will not like it, and if you do it regularly when you feel good, you can achieve the break you want.
3. Do not answer the phone immediately
You do not have to pick up the phone every time you call. If you generally only call when you are in the middle of an emotional crisis or need to have sex or ask for some other favor, deny the pleasure of being there to satisfy that selfish need.
4. Make them see how selfish they are
If your partner has a history of never being there for you and has communicated it for so long and nothing changes, you should do so or see how hurtful your actions are.
How do you do this? Demand your presence in some function or occasion again and again, knowing very well that from the previous records, it is probable that they will not arrive.
This is to arm yourself with substantial evidence when you decide to leave them by not caring enough and bypassing your emotional response.
5. Tell them
And, of course, you can tell that boy or baby that they get involved by themselves and they take away your energy.
If your relationship never gives but takes and takes away from you, it is not ideal. When you give him so much emotional energy, you’re supposed to get it back.
If not, it’s not worth it. And you need to leave as soon as possible.